Thanks everyone- it really helps to read your advice. It help me see what I already know but don't do- know what I mean?
S6's Kindergarten grad was today and H met me at the school. I took the baby b/c he hasn't seen her since she was born. He didn't ask me to do this I just did. He was already there at the school when I pulled up, I walked up and he took Kayla from me right away and started talking to her telling her daddy loved her and how beautiful she was and how he missed her etc... I went in the school and signed in and he was still waiting for me when I came out of the office, I thought he would have already went to our sons classroom. We walked in together and sat down = he sat down by me. kept talking to the baby and asked me a few questions about how I was feeling. He had Kayla during the whole program except of course when I had to feed her. After the program was lunch and he stayed for that too. When it was all over we walked out together and he asked again how I was feeling _ I told him tired and sore but other than that great. He said he had to get to work and just told bye and he would talk to me later he told baby girl he loved her and would see her soon then he left.
I did notice him sneaking looks at me and our eyes would meet for a few seconds then I would look away.
Haven't heard from him the rest of the day-
Love,Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12