I know it is frustrating. I don’t know how long I can hold out either. But My S10 keeps me trying. I do want to GAL. I am GAL but my son is part of that life. My W and I do not argue, nor are we fighting. So my son does not suspect much. It’s like we are room mates. She did tell me if I contact his family “It’s OVER”. But when I first found out I asked her if his wife knew and she told me the OM said she did. (Yea right) then why can’t I talk to her? I don’t want to call the Om W yet because I will only use that as a last resort. It would not be to hurt my wife. If we do file for D I will use it to let the OM feel my pain. Not to mention sending the pictures to his work would be kind of fun...LOL
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
