See, I like that post a lot more than the last few. Look at all those positives. Why she's holding back I have no good idea, but it's not YOU (or at least not just you). She needs to come to grips with her own demons and exorcise them! Then she can come and be the wife she wants to be in the marriage you guys deserve to have. If you're doing your thing it will rub off on her and she'll feel better. Allow yourself to have a loving, harmonious relationship with her regardless and it'll work out. You know I'm jealous that you have any contact with her at all ;\)

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...