YOU picked a bad time to bring this up? So when is there a "good" time? When the kids go to college, when they get married, after they have had all their kids, when you retire. Plezzzzzzzzz - there is no such thing as a good time.

This is just another way of deflecting - another pretty common tactic of avoidance

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)