i don't feel like a studd i just kind of am following my heart. i don't know why i have held on for so long but i have i just have something inside me that says don't give up.
for some reason i don't think she is certain that this is what she wants.
i guess i will pma and give some reasons to why i think my wife still loves me.
-she hasn't filed or takin me up on going and getting this thing behind us
-she has been more friendly on the phone which a couple of months ago would have been hard to believe.
-she is still giving reasons to why we are seperated which leads me to believe that she still is wrestling with the decesion.
-she gave multiple signs before moving out that she still loved me. do i think it is a waste of $ for her to move out. we should start buying a certain wine for the house told friends we will start having kids next year said the seperation won't lead to a divorce said seperation is only temporaily. said our last night together wasn't our last one. came to one of my games and said she will come to alot -she called and got my mom a mothers day gift. would this be done if she was certain that she wanted to go. wouldnt she start breaking away from this.
-she did so much convincing of herself and others how great she is doing which i know for a fact is not true.
-she is buying alot of emotional type things that she can't afford because she wants to feel better. i think she is probably digging a hole for herself knowing that she can always come home.
-when i validate she backs off.
-you don't call someone 12 times over a car.
there are many other positive signs
my things is once she moved out she just backed so far off and her wall got so much stronger. why?
