Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

Not sure where I am at is all that of a place to be - he is off to C on Wed b/c he is sooooo unhappy and cannot figure out why....he will not elaborate b/c he does not want me freaking out. I feel like I am emotionally carrying this relationship and he may be back just for the kids? How long does this continue on - sure it's not nearly as painful as when OW was in the picture but we are sure not through the woods yet!

TO go darker - ignore all txt's and let his calls go to Voice mail and answer only the ones YOU choose to take. Don't be so available - he needs to really see life without you. He needs to have his kids too and they may just have to be around the OW unfortunately!!! Hang in there and keep reading other sitch's out here!!

HB