Originally Posted By: 789
Well helping her move out could not have gone any better. I could not have scripted any better if I had tried. She came out and on her own stated that she is not sure if she wants a divorce, not sure if she wants to stay married either though. Then pretty much asked me to do everything that the DB says even though she has never heard or read it. It was like music to my ears. I realize that does not mean I will get my wife back, but it also gives me the hope that I have been wanting for the last two months.


So what is she missing in her life that keeps her so confused? I know I didn't provide the financially safe environment that my wife longed for. That with a lot of recent fighting and other crap, made it unbearable for her.

Is your wife upset about finances? Physical relationship? Honesty? Time spent with her? Gifts? See if yu can figure that out through being her best friend and do those things. It's a struggle. I tried everthing (I think) and it was definitely not buying her expensive gifts I think her thing was also just being understood and really respected as a human being, not just "MY WIFE." YKWIM?

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...