MC--I hate the hard days too. Hope today is better. No way to know for sure what's going on in her head. Believe me, if I knew one, I'd be SELLING THAT BOOK! Just take the niceness and build on it...
Well today did go better for me. I had a good day at work, S15 and I had a good workout and then we went out for dinner. Unfortunately it was still happy hour. I think the beer glasses must have been dirty, because I am dizzy.
Anyway, I told S15 before he went to CW's (crazy wife's) house what time I would pick him up to work out and that we would go out for dinner after. I told him to tell CW what our plan was before brining it up to S6because S6 was welcome to come along as well if he wanted. I got a call a little later from CW, trying to confirm what was hapening. I ignored the call and she left a message. I called her back and told her what was happening, and she told me to drop S6 off so S15 and I could have a relaxing dinner. S15 was planning to com e home with me, so CW could sleep in tomorrow and not bring him to school.
When I got there to pick them up, CW wanted to talk to me alone. She was PO'd that I was "ruining" her night with the boys by having S15 overnitght etc. I told her that I cleared it with her but whatever, she was po'd. I apologized and told her I would make sure in the futurre to verify.
We then talked about tomorrow and what we would do. I had e-mailed her earlier in the week but we never confirmed. We are still either going to a movie or watching a video at one of the houses.
I have no idea what she is getting at or doing or what she wants of me. I am just going to smile and wave. When I dropped off S6, she was sleeping on the couch.
S&W
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
So your wife gets to be pissed off at you eh? Ruined her night with the boys. Lovely. Yeah..just freaking lovely.
When do you get to be pissed off at her? You know: the the grief she's put you though, the affair she's having and way she's hurting your children, the way she's robbed your every waking moment of peace and security.
Let me vent...
What's amazing about people in a MLC "fog" is they get to act anyway they freaking feel like, treat us anyway they want to, and they don't give a sh#t what we think, or ANYONE thinks. I admire that freedeom to act according to your whims, impulses and desires without any accountability or responsibility for your actions.
Hi Theoden, Nice to see that you are still around. I agree that they think they can do what they want. It's just like my H gets mad when the the OW's H calls me. Hmm...let's see he has had an affair with the OW, but it's wrong for the other H and I to talk, so that means we should take it farther. Oh I forgot, I'm not having a MLC and have morals. Oh, let me not forget the best one that my H said recently. His words "If you try to get half the business, you will ruin it for the girls and I won't be able to support them like they are accustomed to." Wow, I will ruin their life, that's like the kettle calling the pot black. Sorry, everyone to sound so negative, but it gets so tiring about it being all about them all the time. That's why we have to GAL and get a PMA.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Yoyo, my W tells me not to talk the OMW also. Who in the heck is she that she thinks that she can tell me what I can and cannot do. I have only talked to OMW half a dozen times or so, she doesn't realize it but she is really showing me how big of a loser her H is.
Theoden, it is ok to be pissed off, vent, scream, whatever you need to do. You are human and these are human reactions to lifes stresses. This does not mean that you have "issues".
Hey Guys, This is the place to vent. Until someone has been through it, they just don't understand. Everyone tells me it's been 7 months that I need to file, by now he should know what he wants. But, I'm not ready. It's nice to know we can all come on here and share our fears and concerns and small baby steps, not matter how small. This is the best place to preserve our sanity so everyone, please keep sharing.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
theoden i love it. what you said is exactly some of the things that go through my head sometimes. you were just able to put it into words. and u nailed it. that is something i would love to send my h to let him know what i think sometimes but i don't think it would do any good.
me-30 h-38 m-11 yrs s-6 s-7 ss-13 h left-april 21,2007 found out of ea april 1, 2007
Smile and wave, indeed.