Here is my attempt at explaining what is going on in your H head. He's nutz, in a fog, selfish, self centered, immorral, possibly possesed..... Yes, he is pissed - oh well. You wanted a few days with him not contacting you right? I think that you got it. Try not to dwell to much on what just happened, enjoy the time away that YOU requested.
Remember this A will not last.. I know that is hard for you to see where you are currently at, but, it will not last.