"a", she's tired -- we were up till probably 4am talking, and she had to get up at 6. "b", I think she's feeling overwhelmed, and confused, and I think she probably got some blowback from OM today as well (I can only guess). He could either be telling her that he's disappointed that she backed down from a separation and made her feel like crap, or she could be feeling attracted to him today, thinking he is her "escape" from all of this, and that makes her feel like crap too, because she knows that's it's eventually going to tear our family apart.
I do think she may have depression problems, and I told the EAP person on the phone that that was one of my concerns.
Man, NOP told me today "Next, she is going to pick fights with you -- do not engage." Damn, he's good. Choc.
So are you, actually. I think your analysis is flawless. Listen to Nop, and don't back down.
