i would not be filing because i want a divorce i would be doing it b/c i think it may help drive my wife home. if i new for sure that she would sign the papers then i would wait.
Definitely do not file if this is your reasoning. I think it would be more likely that she would see your filing as an indication that you didn't care to keep the marriage alive either. I think you would be looking at a major backfire.
Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.
