i am really struggling with what i should do. i would not be filing because i want a divorce i would be doing it b/c i think it may help drive my wife home. if i new for sure that she would sign the papers then i would wait.
That's the gamble - will she snap out of it and come to or will she just sign and move on. You'll only know when you do it. Just gotta be sure you're ok with the bad thing happening and don't expect the good thing to happen. Stay positive but don't set yourself up for another huge fall. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst, type thing, you know?
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
