i need advice. my h and i went out to lunch w my 5yr old to congradulate him on graduating k5. well after lunch i texted him and told him that i needed him to give me a few days away from him no calling, texting, or coming over. i actually feel sick to my stomach bc i have lost all respect for him. then he asked if he could come get the tv. i told him no not tonight it wont be a good idea and he blew up. he got somad and said he was on his way over bc he was going to get it& the camera. i called 911 and the cop gave him a trespass notice. he told him that if he came onto the property then he would be arrested. at first my h thought it was a joke. then he realized it wasn't and left. then my h called me. i wouldn't answer so he left a voice mail message saying that he would never forgive me for this and that he never wants to see me again. he said that he is never coming out to the house again and that he will set up arrangements for a third party for visitations with the boys so he wont have to pick them up or drop them off here.someone please tell me that he is angry and doesn't mean this. at the same time i cant believe that all of this transpired bc i wanted a few days wo him in my life. i have things that i am dealing with to. what gets me is he wants me to be ok with him walking out on me and the boys and moving in w/ow and we are suppose to remain best friends but yet i want a few days no contact and ww3 breaks out. can someone please explain to me what is going on in my h's head?
me-30 h-38 m-11 yrs s-6 s-7 ss-13 h left-april 21,2007 found out of ea april 1, 2007
