If everyone is doting over your W and she feels unworthy somehow, tell her to do something to be worthy.
Man, that's good. I'm gonna use that.
Yes, I do think we've both tried to overplease, Lou. It "feeds the beast," and only raises the expectations of what you have to do the next time, and creates a sense of entitlement in the recipient anyway. I want to learn to better master the casual "Oh. I thought you would have enjoyed that, I'm sorry." and go about my business.
BB and Mrs. Choc -- now THERE'S a fine couple o' coconuts.
