It makes complete sense. I think you have the right attitude. loving her unconditionally does not mean giving into whatever she wants, its doing things that help her grow as a person, that help her be the best she can be.
It's complicated at times like this, but i know I have had plenty of opportunities to do this, as i'm sure you have too. Even things as simple as listening to her feelings and trying to understand her at times like this is something only a man who loves his wife unselfishly can do. At some point it becomes less about getting our wives back, and more about being true to ourselves. They don't need to love us back for us to love them.
Remember, if you can unconditionally love a woman who would do this to you, carry that attitude into all your relationships. You are going to make a better father, a better son, a better friend, and a better husband to someone (hopefully your now-wife) in the future.
That love for your family will help your girls through this.
