The night she didn't come home was Wednesday night. She told me the night before (the same day that she said she would go to the wedding) that she was going to see her mom and pick up her bridesmaids dress (which is about 2 hours away) on Thursday. She said she was going to stay with her mom to visit and be back home either on Friday or Saturday.
It just bothers me that she didn't come home Wednesday night and then I won't see her again until Saturday or Sunday. I usually go out with friends on the weekend so I won't be just sitting around for her to walk in the door on Saturday.
She hasn't pulled this "not coming home" thing in close to a month and a half. Plus the last time it happened, she text messaged me the next day at work and apologized stating she had a bit too much to drink the night before and stayed at a friends house because she didn't want to drive.
I am really upset that there has been no contact at all since Tuesday night when I asked her to go to the wedding. I know that I don't always tell her where and what I am doing but at least I come home at night so she is aware of the fact that I am alive and fine. Also what burns me is that she is aware of the fact that I need to let my friend know ASAP is she can get off of work and is coming to the wedding. Now, I probably won't get an answer until Sunday night.
Don't worry....I am not going to contact her while she is out of town to find out if she can go to the wedding or not. Nor am I going to mention anything to her about not coming home or letting me know sooner if she is attending the wedding. I will just continue to play it off like it doesn't bother me.
