Hi gracey, I also have twins,two 19mth old girls, and a 2.5 yr old boy and two teenagers; s13 and s15. I also have a cheating husband. Only mine has been chronicly unfaithful for 13 yrs. I've had to deal with the OW, having him choose the OW, then me, then cheat again. I can emphathize with the feelings and the situation... My heart goes out to you. It is tough but it makes you stronger..I'm having to go thru it yet again... and its not fun. But I'm a lot stronger than I was a few years ago.