Thanks to all for the advice. We actually had a great evening with our son last night, partially because of the advice I have received and applied here. No questions, no accusations, no pressure. A huge relief on both of us. I can't tell you how much I appreciate your support.
And remember how lucky you are that you're able to be with your husband - he hasn't run off or anything, and that's a very good thing. As you gain the skills to support him the way he needs you to right now I think you'll notice that he'll start to do the same for you as things improve. Read pages 66-70 in DR. Totally helped me out when I read it.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
