Well, you posted messages here on a website that you actually showed me (or at least you showed me several posts from it) several years ago. You also gave me a book (SSM) that listed the website addy. You also accessed this website on a computer that I also used and I saw "Divorce Busting" pop up in the IE address window.
When you found out I'd been lurking here, you were "horrified" to quote you.
When I asked you whether you were posting here in the hopes of getting "caught" (meaning that I would finally get some sense of what you were going through), you said no that wasn't it.
You said that you never thought I would look on this website. You probably said that because you thought I didn't care.
Choc's wife thought he didn't care. He said here that he didn't care. She BELIEVED he didn't care. Why would someone who doesn't care be looking at her phone log?