M in most societies is certainly not about romantic sexual love Cemar. It's about creating a family, raising children...the basis of all communities. Monogamy in a M is not "normal" either Cemar. What I mean is that your own feelings are legitimate. We are biologically programmed to desire, to have sex with other people, especially men. That's just evolution, carry on the species. And it's dammmmm hard to fight biology. Every person on these boards in M crisis is probably dealing with some aspects of this "nature" of ours. Those chemicals of desire you get from another person can be as bad as heroine. Hard to break away from those drives. LFL
