Try to act as if. let her see you happy and detached you are. Go out one night with friends and keep up your babysteps. She may be a little nervous about things getting to close but as long as you keep doing what you are i am betting that things will turn.
Please be patient as that makes all the differance in the world. Don't let her see you anxious about the sitch. the more you step back just a little the more she seems to step forward.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
