Click for me!! Maybe that's where some of my issues are coming from right now as well. H dropped the D bomb and I diffused it. Now I'm ready for him to step up & be the man and allow me to stop feeling like he isn't taking control of our M. ????? Oh, who the h*ll knows.

Heather, good luck on going home & talking to H. Read above & remember it when you get home as to how to talk to H and what to say. Pulling for you!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10