Well, the above actually sounds like an EA, but that's my opinion. My H's last EA was "I have a 'friend' who I've been talking to about our M problems and I started liking her." Ok, yeah, the 'liking her' part takes it a step beyond, but IMHO if you are talking to someone of the opposite sex about your M problems, it's inappropriate. I wish H would have just been talking to ME about our M problems, but that was not the case.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10