What kind of things is she typing to OM? What kind of things is he saying?
Could this possible be a close friendship she has built? Ya know maybe just finally confided in someone about the marital problems she is having? Years is a LONG time to go without feeling desire or love from your spouse. I know it is hard and has been hard for you to. But it just seems like she made all these changes like getting in shape and a tummy tuck during this stage. She may have felt like look I did all this and he doesn't even desire me. I am sure she is confused right now. But don't give up because she may come around. I guess I am asking about OM because I to have a friendship with a male. He is ONLY a friend and that's all. It never goes further then a friendship at all. There is no attraction nothing. I have confided in him and he is someone that I talk to. With all I am going through with my husband I am wondering if this friendship could have bothered him. I asked him and he said no. But maybe he isn't being honest. I am looking to where I could be at fault in my marriage.
