Choc,

You did a good job using "I" statements and validating her feelings.

Saw the evidence of the A on your other thread. However, your W agreed to MC, she agreed to try, she is putting the separation on hold.

She is coming back toward you. Don't push her away.

Have you read DR yet? Have you read Grasshopper's threads in Infidelity and in Piecing?

Best,
Oldtimer