Minus the baby, and actually saying this to my face, I have heard almost ALL of the same things...through H's spew to others, and his emails to me.
But to me, when I ask him to spew, I get "I can't get into it..." Yep, really manly.
Just as manly as screaming that the mother of your newborn child is worthless. More worthless than a dog.
Have you heard of such a thing? No. I have not heard of many of the things that happen on the boards.
This is ridiculous. You are not a bad W, mother, or person. Believe that first.
And, most real men who are dissatisfied in their M and who really want to leave do not choose to do it with all this evil spew, destruction, and intentional harm.
Honey, just let his crap roll for now and do not engage in it again.