A woman is like a Motie Mediator. If she can see you, she can read you. If she can hear you, she can read you. If she can read anything you've written, she can read you. If she can see anything you've done, she can read you. There's no sense even trying to hide your emotions or your attitude around her... she'll see it. You've got to be the person you want her to see, inside and out, and let her respond to it. It can be unnerving to be under her microscope like that... or it can be an exciting opportunity to be your best self around someone that totally gets and appreciates it.
You don't have to be a "meathead" to be her rock, her "alpha male". You don't have to give up any of your intelligence or even your weird interests and habits. You just have to give up your insecurities and your resentments. Those things don't do you any good anyway.
CE, I don't know what a Motie Mediator is, but still, all I can say is WOW! This is good.