1) Want. To physcially and emotionally need someone in your life. To relate to another person on the deepest levels possible both physically and emotionally. 2) Horny. To become physically arroused by the thought or sight of another person. To be sexually stimulated. To NEED sex or other physcial touch from me. 10) Flirt. Dress up, dress sexy, look good for the spouse, to touch the spouse, to kiss, hold hands, grab his butt, grab his crotch, whisper things into his ear, to be playful with the spouse and not serious, come to bed in nothing, ask him to join in a shower, etc... 11) Sexually adventerous. To be a sexually confident woman, to love your own body, to want to push your self to your limits sexaully. 12) Initiate. Touch your spouse FIRST. Kiss him FIRST. Get into bed and grab him first. Drop is pants and go down on him unexpectedly. Make the first contact physically!