He approached me with this realization and said that he felt that I always try to avoid sex, and he just gives up and stops asking. Then he's in a bad mood and thinks about beign elsewhere.
My H and I had the same problem... I did used to avoid sex. Or had sex and was not adding any Passion. I agree with PS at times I needed to fake my way thru it and then H was nicer, happier , calmer. It was like I was saying a Big ILY when I would initiate and want him. And just recently I have been alot stonger and do not think @ "ow" all the time and let my self be the sensual ,sexual being my H actualy needs. Not wants,,,NEEDS!!!! ... he needs it to feel like I love him and need him and want him and desire him. I look at like this now,, he needs my love ( SEX )not OH God he wants to have sex and I feel x, y or z and can't.He wants me to ML to him and I ALONE can do that and make him feel loved noone else,, HOW NICE! Take care sweetie.. God bless....
