My 100th post... Thought that was pretty scary, then looked and saw that most of you are in the 4 digits!

SF: Your sitch gives me hope. But I'm also afraid of that, because like I said above, I think I'm just setting myself up for a huge disappointment. What if he fixes everything else in his life and I'm moving forward, but still in my heart and mind expecting him to do the same with our M and it never happens?

I know what I need to do - take the advice I've been given, don't expect anything, do what makes me happy, stop thinking about him, move on with my life... Just way easier said than done.

Wish they could issue some kind of guarantee that they'd come back after their MLC! Would definitely make the decision to wait much easier.


M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D