CHOC!!!! This "new" sitch has just been going on for a few days -- you don't know that she isn't going to do the "right thing."

Get back to where you were -- working on you and how YOU are going to make the M better. Quit dwelling on the A stuff and the negative.

If you keep dwelling, you are going to continue to be angry and that's not going to help. If anything, it's going to push her away -- the direction you don't want her to be going.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10