Well, this was also part of H's problem -- he THINKS he communicated to me how unhappy he was and as he was trying to help around the house more (prior to D bomb) to make things "easier" for me, he ASSUMED I knew what he was doing. No -- to me, yes he was helping, but he was doing things around the house and I was taking care of the kids, etc. Didn't realize that he was needing all sorts of "atta boys" etc. at the time.
Oh well, we live & learn and hopefully now we can all start seeing things differently and hopefully reacting in different ways, thus changing the ebb & tide of things (like that? analysis Anyway, all of our sitch's are just still so amazing & foreign to me. It's crazy that we're here, but at least we are here and learning how to deal in the right ways w/ things, hopefully making things end up working out better than if we just tried to do things "our way" which obviously didn't work in the past.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Anyway, all of our sitch's are just still so amazing & foreign to me. It's crazy that we're here, but at least we are here and learning how to deal in the right ways w/ things, hopefully making things end up working out better than if we just tried to do things "our way" which obviously didn't work in the past.
