I don't know if this will be comforting or not, but I'll say it anyway. I don't know your W well, but it sounds like her A is of the same general type as mine, the kind that Harley talks a lot about, where it just sort of "happens." If so, know that this type of A is dominated by depression and confusion, not maliciousness or hatred. I don't think in her heart she wants to hurt you, she is just really confused and neck deep in rationalizations.
