Yeah, it's always the balancing act. Between loving them and not acting too needy. He did not call last night as he said he would, but I've come to expect nothing and appreciate what comes. He did respond to above email w/ some general news and told me what he was doing on his Friday night and said "don't worry, light night" about a going away party he was going to. Also said he missed our conversations too. When I responded, I kept it light and didn't even say anything about being worried or whatever about what he is or is not doing. To be honest, I'm NOT worried that he's going to cheat, because I hope/believe he knows that I won't put up w/ that again. I am trusting he is going to make good "choices" of his own while he's there.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10