I completely agree...there are several items on CeMar's list that I do not view as sustainable, even as an HD woman myself. When I read his list my thought was "if he really expects this he's setting his wife up for failure."
I'll even go so far as to say this as an HD woman myself, if I thought someone EXPECTED this behavior of me that would turn me off, it would be a sexual repellant for me. The expectation is not attractive, it's needy. YUCK!
