Needed: A Big Dose of Reality

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I do know! believe me! I want H to tell me all the time! but he doesn't, I think its just the way men are built I think, they just assume we know and that they shouldn't have to say it!!
I am learning to deal with this, but its hard! I want to be told!

You are in such a difficult spot, but the positive approach is good, although I wouldn't cut him off from whats really going on completely, as you don't want him to think you don't need him, you will just have to play that one by ear!