Put your anger over the lies on the back burner. It is going to take time to get over that. No reason to let it derail you.
Her discussion with you last night was mostly vapor in order to justify forthcoming behavior. Think about that, she is attempting to set you up for a new reality. That reality is her wayward reality where she is not accounted for and has hours off to herself to pursue her new relationship.
The deal with wayward lies is that they will often have a piece of truth in them. The fact is she probably does feel at everyone's beck and call, and now that complaint is also a useful excuse to demand a little space.
Please re-read my previous email to you. Nothing has really changed, the stakes are still your marriage, and you must be the best Choc possible to win back your wife. That was the plan. Don't change it.
I will help you deal with the other man. Don't get hung up on it.
If csw (and many others) can get through this, so can you.
Let's do this thing Choc. Balls to the wall.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
