cadesmom, I agree with you. Heather does realize. Thats why, if she wants success, the how and intent is important.
I totally agree that she is scared, and she doesnt want it to end. Thats why the incongruent anger and worn out threats of Im leaving need to stop.
Honest admissions, excatly like you mentioned.... 'Im afraid you arent going to hear what I need from you. Im afraid that you cant take care of me.... I cant feel that you love me... etc. Appeal to his rescuer. or ram together.
