Choc, you have to listen and focus on you and what your goals are. The A sucks big time. A lot of us here know first-hand. I'm still dealing w/ the aftermath of EA's, one-night stand BJ's, etc. It sucks, but if you want to stay w/ your W and make things work, first you have to decide to forgive and the trust, etc. will come slowly. You need to deal w/ the A, whether it's EA or PA, doesn't REALLY matter in the big scheme of things. But right now, you need to focus on family and getting to work on getting your M back on track. The other will fall into place as time goes on and issues are dealt w/.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
