if he'd agree, without pressure, to see a T, it'd be good. ADHD is particularly merciless if the person doesn't know he/she has it, damagin for couples if they aren't aware of its presence.
Does he forget constantly, has mood changes rapidly and is impatient? those are a few traits of ADHD.
Give him time and your constant support.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.