Yes, I can't change her or force her to do anything, she won't even agree to go to counseling, and it's driving me nuts. Right now, I guess she's going to have things her way.
I am at my limit here. I'm leaving her alone, and I am just going to do things for me. I'm taking care of myself, and she can take care of herself. I've already begin to divide our obligations. She is dependent on me for a lot of things.
I have been thinking about what is really going to make me happy. I believe that ending this M with her (not necessarily the R), but just the M, will give me peace. We are like two enraged bulls locked in the same cage. One if us has to get out.
1210........................if you don't mind, I would like to email you my complete sitch. I don't want to post it on the boards, but I would greatly appreciate your take on it. It's driving me nuts that I can't post it here, but I feel that soon I should.........I want to be completely transparent here so it can help me more, and maybe help my W.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
