Hey Lin, Sorry to HJ. I think DH is reconnecting. He is contacting friends and started calling family again. He looks me in the eyes and is not so jumpy anymore. BUT he's with OW and I'm scared. He told me a few weeks ago he feels that my changes are to win him back and he asked what would happen if we only stayed friends. I'm scared of the friends thing...it's like now he will start introducing OW to family and friends with a legit reason like he really thought about us and etc. He told me a few days ago he felt a real urge to talk to me but is afraid to do so face to face because he is scared for my reaction like it used to be. He said he liked talking over the phone and through email. Now I'm freaking myself out because I'm thinking why would he worry about my reaction unless it would be something nasty he wanted to tell me....? He still wants to live nearby in three months time and I hope things will change but I feel he is seriously into OW even though he is reconnecting with me. He calls me, comes by and we do things together with DS etc. Any suggestions? Sorry to HJ... hug BB
