Agreed. One more thing, they are also afraid that a counselor might not only help them see that changing their mind is OK to do, might expose what THEY are doing and who they are hurting BUT ALSO make them look hard at themselves and WHY they are doing it all in the first place. In my situation, my wife is so afraid to face up to her hurtful past that she is letting our lives get crushed, our kids lives to change forever (and not in a good way) and a complete breakdown of what COULD be a great family, all because she's so messed up in her head and is afraid to take it on.
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
