And her not wanting to see a C because they will try to change her mind is a lame excuse. I think its more likely she is afraid SHE might change her mind - why? because she isn't sure of what she is doing - thus all the reasons for not leaving and still pretending you are a family.
also, they are usually afraid that the counselor will make them have to look at what THEY are doing right now and feel the guilt they are trying to avoid.
