...she looked me right in the eye and LIED to me today when I asked her if she had feelings for this guy. I even MENTIONED HIM BY NAME. She looked right at me and denied it.This task ahead of me is going to be hard enough if she's completely HONEST with me; how can I possibly do it if she's going to lie???
I asked her to be honest. And she couldn't do it.
Hi Choc,
I can completely empathize with you because I always trusted my wife and could never believe she would lie to me.
In our very first MC session, she was the one that said: "I need to be honest with you...I need some time alone." Well, she has told me so many lies since stating the need to be honest, and each lie that I recognize, cuts like a knife.
Put on the chainmail of chivalrous dignity, and go forward with courage as you have been, in excellent manner recently.
Best wishes,
LG
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
