Husband, I too can relate to what you are saying, I give everyone else advice and then turn around and do what I tell everyone else not to do. Don't send the letter right now, maybe not at all. Just keep writing them to get your frustrations out and then destroy them. I wish I hadn't thought I was going to prove a point to my H when I told him about the OW's nephew talking too much. It definitely backfired on me. Believe me they don't need any help running to the OP, they already think they are perfect. They have to see things on their own, they won't believe anyone else. So all we can do is hope that the OP show their true colors soon. In the meantime we have to GAL!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
