That is very close to conversations that my XW had with me at one time. With mine, I think D was the only option that she saw to fix the issue. Even used the "if you love them, let them go and they will come back" slogan.
I think your conversation went very well. Probably time to ease off from your side and let her talk about her feelings and let her figure out what they are.
Keep it up!
CIAZ M 7/97 S 5/05 D 8/06 Both 33 years old No kids