growing and healing

[Heywyre]

SD - this is just my opinion, so take it for what it's worth

Personally, I think she is having her cake, icing AND the nice little sprinkles on top. First of all, I guess it would all depend on how long you have had this "arrangement" but here goes

Give me a break - you are living together, she stays in another room but still wants to do family things, give the impression, socially, that you are a couple and yet she wants to pursue other relationships?

And her not wanting to see a C because they will try to change her mind is a lame excuse. I think its more likely she is afraid SHE might change her mind - why? because she isn't sure of what she is doing - thus all the reasons for not leaving and still pretending you are a family.