Also, my H (cac4) just reminded me that women with PCOS have higher levels of testosterone than normal, so that could be part of her HD-ness too. Other symptoms of PCOS are difficult periods, facial hair, not ovulating and insulin resistance.

cac said that PCOS is easy to diagnose, so we're curious that one (some) doctors think she's fine. A simple blood test can confirm it, as you probably know.