Appreciate your comments, husband. I agree that making it difficult to have the two of them get together could be harmful. Actually my D16 keeps saying she wants to move back to where we used to live. She is not happy in school and thinks she would be happier there. However, I realize that was 9 years ago and it wouldn't be the same anyway. I don't want D16 to think that running away is the answer to her problems either. At the time I was thinking a support system would help me (moving closer to family and friends) vs. staying here and being surrounded by H's family. It's too difficult to make a decision like that this soon. Matilda
